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What Your Birthstone Says About You! - Chocolate and Steel

What Your Birthstone Says About You!

Birthstones are a way to make birthday gifts really special. There’s just something personal about knowing that the gemstone in a piece of jewelry was chosen just for you. But did you ever wonder what your birthstone says about you? People have been fascinated by crystals and colored stones for a long time, and over time, we’ve given each stone symbolic meanings and associations. Birthstones are no different! So read on to find out what yours says about you!

January - Garnet

Garnet is regarded as a protective stone. The fire that flashes from its red heart (but did you know that not all garnet is red?) represents passion, creativity, change, and strength. That may seem like a lot to put on a little stone! Garnet can help us when contemplating great change in our lives, and can also help with brainstorming and other creative projects! With garnet as your birthstone, you might be the fiery one in your family, strong and full of passion, and capable of great creativity. 

February - Amethyst

While the garnet is fire, change, and passion, the amethyst is calm, moderation, and humility. This mellow purple stone has been thought to help avoid overindulgence, in fact the Romans believed that drinking from a cup decorated with amethyst would prevent drunkenness. Amethyst is a stone of intuition, and inspires a different but equally powerful kind of creativity than garnet. Contemplation of this stone may help one control their thoughts and be more mindful. If Amethyst is your birthstone, you may be steady and even-keeled, but capable of tremendous creative thought.

March - Aquamarine

This clear, blue-green stone reminds one of the waters of a clear sea. It is a calming stone to look at, and it can soothe troubled minds. It is thought to inspire truth, trust, and letting go. Aquamarine has also been used as a talisman of protection for those who travel by sea, or who travel over or around the sea. If your birthstone is aquamarine, you may exert a calming influence on those around you, allowing the truth to come out.

April - Quartz

Quartz may seem to be an unassuming stone, ranging from water clear to clouded, but it comes with rich meaning. Clear quartz, or crystal quartz, is considered to be a universal crystal. It carries with it meanings of balance and harmony, and is thought to foster great wisdom. If you have quartz as your birthstone, you may find yourself acting as peacemaker between friends and family. Your ability to see and balance both sides of an argument makes you an invaluable mediator in times of conflict.

May - Emerald

The emerald has long been known as a stone of love. In Rome, the emerald was a gemstone of the goddess Venus, and was associated with both love and hope. This stone is also a symbol of vitality and new growth. If you have the emerald as your birthstone, you may be young at heart, boldly truthful, and deeply loyal. This youthful energy may draw people to you, but some may not understand that despite your young vibe, you also possess great wisdom.

June - Moonstone

Moonstone is an opaque, milky stone that carries a certain shimmer within it, like moonlight glimmering on water. Its association with the moon is unmistakable, and as such, it’s a stone of renewal, as the moon wanes away and waxes full each month. The moonstone is a mystical stone, and inspires inner strength and personal growth. If you have moonstone as your birthstone, you may seem a little… otherworldly to those around you. But this impression of strangeness belies your great inner strength and selflessness.

July - Ruby

Ruby is a beautiful stone that ranges from red to pink. Not as dark as the garnet, the garnet is thought to bring passion, yes, but also happiness and vitality. Less volatile than the garnet, it is also thought to be a stone that promotes overall wellness, both mentally and physically. With ruby as your birthstone, you may be the image of vitality and good health. Your passion is a more measured one. You’re generally happy, and able to spread that happiness among those who cross your path.

August - Peridot

Peridot is a gem with a green color, generally lighter and brighter than the emerald. While other birthstones can appear in a variety of colors, peridot is always a shade of green. Also, some peridot deposits arrive on earth from meteorites! Peridot is thought to be a stone of compassion. Contemplating the peridot may give restful sleep. With peridot as your birthstone, you are a compassionate person, and may find yourself able to calm inflamed tempers. You may be known for vigorous good health and a cheerful demeanor.

September - Lapis Lazuli

Lapis lazuli is a relatively soft stone famed for its blue color. This stone was ground to a powder and used to create cosmetics and pigments for paint! Famous paintings, such as Van Gogh’s Starry Night and Vermeer’s Girl With a Pearl Earring contain lapis lazuli! Lapis lazuli is known as a very spiritual stone, and it is also known as a stone of truth and friendship. With lapis lazuli as your birthstone, you might be a stalwart friend, loyal and kind to those who know you. Since lapis is thought to aid good judgment, you might also be the level headed one.

October - Opal

There are two kinds of opal; the common opal, which may just look like a light-colored, opaque stone, and the precious opal, the stone that flashes with color. Opal is also an amorphous stone, meaning that it lacks a single cohesive crystalline structure. Opal is a stone of clarity and energy. With opal as your birthstone, you may be active and energetic, but with the clarity of mind that allows you to direct that intense energy in positive directions.

November - Citrine

Citrine is a yellow stone, varying from pale gold to bright amber. Citrine often has a smoky or cloudy appearance. A stone of summer, the citrine is associated with energy and warmth. With citrine as your birthstone, you may have a sunny disposition. This will draw people to you, but you also have the same soothing quality of a mild summer day. You’re energetic and chronically positive; a great ally to your more maudlin friends.

December - Turquoise

Turquoise is a beautiful opaque stone with a blue-green hue. The color reflects that of the sky on a cloudless day. Turquoise is a stone of wisdom and inner sight. Contemplation of this stone can help you better understand your inner self, your own strengths and weaknesses, and thus inspire empathy for others. With turquoise as your gemstone, you may find yourself being particularly understanding of others flaws and foibles, able to see the good in those around you. This is a particular kind of wisdom that may make you seem older than your years.

Does your gemstone describe you? Or are you a rebellious misfit, going your own way? Do these birthstone meanings remind you of your friends or family? While some of this may ring true, we are all individuals, and every one of us is unique. So don’t worry if you don’t vibe with your birthstone as much as some do.

So if you have a special someone that you want to say “you’re special” to, on their birthday or any day, check out our selection of birthstone jewelry! 

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06/14/2025
Alex G.
United States
Lovely! I ordered a custom piece & it was brilliant!. So happy will certainly order again. Found this maker through the NYPublic Library & im certainly very happy I did!
Custom Quote Wrap Ring- Personalized
06/06/2025
Therese T.
United States
I absolutely love this necklace, but unfortunately, I took it off in a hotel room a few months ago and was so happy when the store that I purchased it and was able to give me the information to find you online and buy it a second time I think that says a lot when it’s important to go back and...I absolutely love this necklace, but unfortunately, I took it off in a hotel room a few months ago and was so happy when the store that I purchased it and was able to give me the information to find you online and buy it a second time I think that says a lot when it’s important to go back and repurchase a piece of jewelry After losing it.
"Life is a balance of holding on and letting go" -Rumi Quote Necklace
05/15/2025
Kirsten S.
United States
I chose the choker chain and I wear my MAMAN necklace every day! Definitely recommend the 15 length, with the tiny tag it's just so sweet. Simple, meaningful, and adorable.
Tiny Mantra Choker Necklaces
05/15/2025
Kirsten S.
United States
My mama's day bracelet I haven't taken off! These rondelle beads are so chunky and juicey with the tiny contrasting beads to set them off. This bracelet blends great with a variety of others for every day, but I can see the matching necklace as a set for special occasions. My first storyteller...My mama's day bracelet I haven't taken off! These rondelle beads are so chunky and juicey with the tiny contrasting beads to set them off. This bracelet blends great with a variety of others for every day, but I can see the matching necklace as a set for special occasions. My first storyteller piece, but definitely not my last!
Storyteller Bracelet
05/15/2025
Kirsten S.
United States
This must be my favorite necklace, since now I have it in Amethyst, Emerald, and Citrine! Ruby and Peridot are next💖 I just love this gorgeous outsized heart trimmed in gold and the slice of gemstone must be admired in person. Adore the chunky gold chain as well, which I got in both 20 and 24...This must be my favorite necklace, since now I have it in Amethyst, Emerald, and Citrine! Ruby and Peridot are next💖 I just love this gorgeous outsized heart trimmed in gold and the slice of gemstone must be admired in person. Adore the chunky gold chain as well, which I got in both 20 and 24 length for options. Also great as a gifting set along with the gemstone heart earrings, I earmarked the Black Onyx as a graduation present next year for my too cool niece🖤
Isla Gemstone Heart Necklace | Birthstone Jewelry | Chocolate & Steel
05/15/2025
Kirsten S.
United States
I have the moon trio in both silver and gold! They're the perfect mix and match. A daily basic I'm always wearing.
Moon Phase Trio - Full Moon, Crescent Moon Stud Earrings
04/16/2025
BobbieJo C.
United States
The words on the necklace are barely legible. The necklace is silver but the charm looks like nickel. Nice idea for a necklace but the charm leaves a lot to be desired. For the cost, definitely not worth the money.
"I don't know where I'm going, but I promise it won't be boring" -David Bowie quote
03/12/2025
Amy L.
United States
I love words, including jewelry with words. These came promptly, with incredible packaging ready for gift giving. Very well made, and very pleased with them. Thanks for making it easy to shop made in America and small stores.
Julia Quote Hook Hoops - RBG, Nevertheless she persisted and more
01/15/2025
patrice
United States
Everything from start to finish was lovely. The obvious care of the packaging, the corresponding, the quick delivery and the product itself... just lovely. I haven't taken the necklace off since I first put it on when I opened the box. I also bough a gift for my daughter, but she hasn't received it...Everything from start to finish was lovely. The obvious care of the packaging, the corresponding, the quick delivery and the product itself... just lovely. I haven't taken the necklace off since I first put it on when I opened the box. I also bough a gift for my daughter, but she hasn't received it yet, but I am so excited to give it to her in its preciously wrapped box. Much appreciation!
Joan Didion Rune Quote Necklace "I have already lost touch with a couple of people I used to be"
01/02/2025
LORRI G.
United States
I love giving Chocolate and Steel as gifts. I always get and big thank you and how much they love the necklace or the bracelets. Thank you for doing such quality of work.
Friendship Card - Dry Shampoo
12/19/2024
Sally W.
United States
Sparkly and fun this unique necklace was a hit with my friend who was showing it to everyone to read. I got the longer chain and it fits over her head rather than having our older hands fumbling with those tiny clasps.
"I don't know where I'm going, but I promise it won't be boring" -David Bowie quote
12/19/2024
Debra F.
United States
Its perfect for my best friend from kindegarden. Shell be turning 74 next month and i’ll send it to Sante Fe
"Your heart and my heart are very, very old friends" -Hafez Quote necklace
12/18/2024
Anonymous
United States
My friend spotted this piece at the recent open house while I was waiting on something else and it just called to me. It fits with all of the other C&S necklaces I own (goes with both silver and gold). Another win from Christine!
Sugartown Faceted Gemstone Necklace with Teardrop Charm
12/17/2024
Amy R.
United States
I love this small Company and my daughter was thrilled with the necklace! Thank you guys!
"Your heart and my heart are very, very old friends" -Hafez Quote necklace
11/30/2024
Gail P.
United States
Inspiring quote is perfect for this pretty necklace. It will make a lovely Christmas gift for my cat and dogs' veterinarian who takes such good care of us throughout the year.
"I am not afraid. I was born to do this." -Joan of arc quote necklace
11/11/2024
Lara L.
United States
This necklace is beautiful and was the perfect gift for my friend. I’ve ordered multiple times from Chocolate and Steel. They are so nice and have gone out of their way to make sure my orders are always just perfect. There are real and kind people behind this jewelry and I love supporting them. My...This necklace is beautiful and was the perfect gift for my friend. I’ve ordered multiple times from Chocolate and Steel. They are so nice and have gone out of their way to make sure my orders are always just perfect. There are real and kind people behind this jewelry and I love supporting them. My friend group all got custom bracelets for each other for our 50th birthdays and we wear them every day.
"In the midst of winter, I found there was, within me, an invincible summer. - Albert Camus quote necklace
09/18/2024
Keely T.
United States
I rarely leave reviews…that’s how happy my experience with Chocolate & Steel made me. From their kind email communications to the gorgeous packaging and quality product with feminist messages…it doesn’t get better. I can’t wait to order again!
"I am not afraid. I was born to do this." -Joan of arc quote necklace
09/18/2024
lois w.
United States
I was unable to see it as I sent it to her for a new job, she said she loved it. I loved the quality and the inspiration.
"Be Fearless in the Pursuit of What Sets Your Soul on Fire" Inspirational Quote Necklace
09/17/2024
Stephanie
United States
Absolutely gorgeous. Bought two from another shop in person. Was so glad the original maker was included! Have bought many more since. Absolutely love this vendor
"There is no person in the world like you and I like you just the way you are" -Mister Rogers
08/16/2024
Tracy O.
United States
The jewelry was just as described - the packaging was outstanding! They really know how to “level up”!
Leonard Cohen Quote Necklace | Quote Jewelry | Chocolate and Steel
07/28/2024
Anonymous
United States
This necklace made for a lovely gift for my relative. She loved it. It looked beautiful on. Tasteful and interesting. It also hung nicely. Thank you for making a beautiful piece of artwork.
"Life is a balance of holding on and letting go" -Rumi Quote Necklace
07/10/2024
Ayumi T.
Germany
I just love this necklace. So beautiful and the quality is amazing. Christine was so sweet and kind by customizing the necklace. I am thrilled and so happy with my purchase!
Custom Rune Tablet Quote Necklace | Inspirational Quote Jewelry
06/22/2024
Connie G.
United States
I really love my silver bead and aquamarine bracelet. It’s simple, understated, and timeless. And it’s my birthstone!
Seabreeze Silver Bracelet
06/18/2024
Connie G.
United States
I love my pink opal ring in a sterling silver band! It’s absolutely gorgeous and very well made… and so comfortable. I’m thrilled with my purchase!
Gemstone Stacking Rings - Opal, Chrysoprase, Lapis, Malachite or Moonstone
05/31/2024
Christina R.
United States
Beautiful necklace!! Great quality, and love the message!! Perfect for everyday, dressed up or down. I love it!!!!
“Take the scenic route” Quote Necklace Pendant
05/10/2024
Jackie K.
United States
I ordered 2 custom Tiny Mantra Necklaces and they came out perfect!
Tiny Mantra Choker Necklaces
05/07/2024
Denise R.
Australia
I am delighted with Chocolate and Steel. The necklace is what I imagined it would be and so, so beautifully packaged. The service was amazingly quick - I live in Australia and needed it for a particular date as was birthday present. I love this boutique business of obviously dedicated jewellers....I am delighted with Chocolate and Steel. The necklace is what I imagined it would be and so, so beautifully packaged. The service was amazingly quick - I live in Australia and needed it for a particular date as was birthday present. I love this boutique business of obviously dedicated jewellers. Thank you will sing your praises to all who will listen!
"All we need is love" - Beatles
04/21/2024
Anonymous
United States
Very good Quality, nice fine feminine jewelry totally enjoy wearing it
Petite PaperClip Layering Chain
03/12/2024
John S.
United States
These earrings are my new favorites! I love the names Maeve and Dagmar and I found the colors intriguing. 10/10 experience!
Pride Hoops - Maeve and Dagmar styles
02/27/2024
Barbara
United States
Exactly as described
"Oh The Places You'll Go" -Dr Seuss Wrap Ring
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