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Audre Lorde and why she is so important - Chocolate and Steel

Audre Lorde and why she is so important

Audre Lorde was a Black writer, poet, and activist who identified as a lesbian. She played a significant role in advancing the rights and visibility of LGBTQ people in the United States and around the world during the 60’s through her death in 1992.

She became a key figure in the movement for queer rights and visibility. Her influence on contemporary social justice movements continues to this day, as her writing and ideas have been widely disseminated and have inspired many activists around the world.

Lorde's work was groundbreaking for its time, as she explored the intersections of race, gender, sexuality, and class in her writing. She wrote about the experiences of queer people of color, and her work highlighted the need for solidarity and coalition-building between marginalized communities.

One of Lorde's most famous essays, "The Uses of Anger: Women Responding to Racism," challenged the ways in which white feminists and other progressive activists were ignoring the experiences and perspectives of women of color, including queer women of color. Her work pushed for a more inclusive and intersectional approach to activism, one that recognized the unique challenges facing LGBTQ people and other marginalized communities.

We celebrate and honor Audre Lorde with this necklace featuring her powerful quote "If I didn't define myself for myself, I would be crunched into other people's fantasies for me and eaten alive."

From "The Black Unicorn" published in 1978, this quote is about self-determination and the importance of defining oneself on one's own terms.

20% of the purchase of this necklace is donated to The Trevor Project. The Trevor Project’s mission is to end suicide among LGBTQ young people. Let’s make this a reality!

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05/15/2025
Kirsten S.
United States
I chose the choker chain and I wear my MAMAN necklace every day! Definitely recommend the 15 length, with the tiny tag it's just so sweet. Simple, meaningful, and adorable.
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Kirsten S.
United States
This must be my favorite necklace, since now I have it in Amethyst, Emerald, and Citrine! Ruby and Peridot are next💖 I just love this gorgeous outsized heart trimmed in gold and the slice of gemstone must be admired in person. Adore the chunky gold chain as well, which I got in both 20 and 24...This must be my favorite necklace, since now I have it in Amethyst, Emerald, and Citrine! Ruby and Peridot are next💖 I just love this gorgeous outsized heart trimmed in gold and the slice of gemstone must be admired in person. Adore the chunky gold chain as well, which I got in both 20 and 24 length for options. Also great as a gifting set along with the gemstone heart earrings, I earmarked the Black Onyx as a graduation present next year for my too cool niece🖤
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Kirsten S.
United States
I have the moon trio in both silver and gold! They're the perfect mix and match. A daily basic I'm always wearing.
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04/16/2025
BobbieJo C.
United States
The words on the necklace are barely legible. The necklace is silver but the charm looks like nickel. Nice idea for a necklace but the charm leaves a lot to be desired. For the cost, definitely not worth the money.
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03/12/2025
Amy L.
United States
I love words, including jewelry with words. These came promptly, with incredible packaging ready for gift giving. Very well made, and very pleased with them. Thanks for making it easy to shop made in America and small stores.
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patrice
United States
Everything from start to finish was lovely. The obvious care of the packaging, the corresponding, the quick delivery and the product itself... just lovely. I haven't taken the necklace off since I first put it on when I opened the box. I also bough a gift for my daughter, but she hasn't received it...Everything from start to finish was lovely. The obvious care of the packaging, the corresponding, the quick delivery and the product itself... just lovely. I haven't taken the necklace off since I first put it on when I opened the box. I also bough a gift for my daughter, but she hasn't received it yet, but I am so excited to give it to her in its preciously wrapped box. Much appreciation!
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LORRI G.
United States
I love giving Chocolate and Steel as gifts. I always get and big thank you and how much they love the necklace or the bracelets. Thank you for doing such quality of work.
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12/19/2024
Sally W.
United States
Sparkly and fun this unique necklace was a hit with my friend who was showing it to everyone to read. I got the longer chain and it fits over her head rather than having our older hands fumbling with those tiny clasps.
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12/19/2024
Debra F.
United States
Its perfect for my best friend from kindegarden. Shell be turning 74 next month and i’ll send it to Sante Fe
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12/18/2024
Anonymous
United States
My friend spotted this piece at the recent open house while I was waiting on something else and it just called to me. It fits with all of the other C&S necklaces I own (goes with both silver and gold). Another win from Christine!
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12/17/2024
Amy R.
United States
I love this small Company and my daughter was thrilled with the necklace! Thank you guys!
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11/30/2024
Gail P.
United States
Inspiring quote is perfect for this pretty necklace. It will make a lovely Christmas gift for my cat and dogs' veterinarian who takes such good care of us throughout the year.
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11/11/2024
Lara L.
United States
This necklace is beautiful and was the perfect gift for my friend. I’ve ordered multiple times from Chocolate and Steel. They are so nice and have gone out of their way to make sure my orders are always just perfect. There are real and kind people behind this jewelry and I love supporting them. My...This necklace is beautiful and was the perfect gift for my friend. I’ve ordered multiple times from Chocolate and Steel. They are so nice and have gone out of their way to make sure my orders are always just perfect. There are real and kind people behind this jewelry and I love supporting them. My friend group all got custom bracelets for each other for our 50th birthdays and we wear them every day.
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09/18/2024
Keely T.
United States
I rarely leave reviews…that’s how happy my experience with Chocolate & Steel made me. From their kind email communications to the gorgeous packaging and quality product with feminist messages…it doesn’t get better. I can’t wait to order again!
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09/18/2024
lois w.
United States
I was unable to see it as I sent it to her for a new job, she said she loved it. I loved the quality and the inspiration.
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Stephanie
United States
Absolutely gorgeous. Bought two from another shop in person. Was so glad the original maker was included! Have bought many more since. Absolutely love this vendor
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08/16/2024
Tracy O.
United States
The jewelry was just as described - the packaging was outstanding! They really know how to “level up”!
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07/28/2024
Anonymous
United States
This necklace made for a lovely gift for my relative. She loved it. It looked beautiful on. Tasteful and interesting. It also hung nicely. Thank you for making a beautiful piece of artwork.
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Ayumi T.
Germany
I just love this necklace. So beautiful and the quality is amazing. Christine was so sweet and kind by customizing the necklace. I am thrilled and so happy with my purchase!
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Connie G.
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I really love my silver bead and aquamarine bracelet. It’s simple, understated, and timeless. And it’s my birthstone!
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Christina R.
United States
Beautiful necklace!! Great quality, and love the message!! Perfect for everyday, dressed up or down. I love it!!!!
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Denise R.
Australia
I am delighted with Chocolate and Steel. The necklace is what I imagined it would be and so, so beautifully packaged. The service was amazingly quick - I live in Australia and needed it for a particular date as was birthday present. I love this boutique business of obviously dedicated jewellers....I am delighted with Chocolate and Steel. The necklace is what I imagined it would be and so, so beautifully packaged. The service was amazingly quick - I live in Australia and needed it for a particular date as was birthday present. I love this boutique business of obviously dedicated jewellers. Thank you will sing your praises to all who will listen!
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Anonymous
United States
Very good Quality, nice fine feminine jewelry totally enjoy wearing it
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These earrings are my new favorites! I love the names Maeve and Dagmar and I found the colors intriguing. 10/10 experience!
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Exactly as described
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Karen C.
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Beautifully made. Love it!
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RHONDA M.
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Christine never ceases to amaze me with her creativity and the care she puts into every piece she makes. I am a forever customer!
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I love how delicate and understated it is :-)
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